I am sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one in death is such a difficult thing to experience. Please be comforted by the words of Jesus at John 5:28,29. Jesus tells us not to marvel at this but that all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out. What a loving provision put in place by the God of all comfort so we can have the assured hope of seeing our dead loved ones again during the resurrection. Meanwhile as I pray for that day to come I ask God to bless your family and give you the strength to endure this most trying time.